That is what I just asked his royal majesty when he leaped up into my lap the minute I sat down. Me thinks, Bentley is home. There was no hiding for this boy last night. Because he hadn’t gone missing very long, I just merged him in with the others and there was no fighting or posturing. He slept on my chest all night, becoming quite indignant when I wanted to change my sleeping position. Right now he is head-bumping the beejesus out of my hands as I type, as if to say:”How dare you NOT pay attention to me.”
He seems no worse for his experience, just intent on keeping me within his eyesight. Mike said last night when I went outside to feed, he meowed the entire time I was gone. I guess he loves me- LOL The feeling is mutual.
I haven’t gone out to feed yet. There is a chill in the air and I am not yet brave enough or awake enough to go and face 35 degrees- in April! Instead, I think I will curl up with a good book (just got Darlene Arden’s latest book) and I can’t wait to go through all the gorgeous pedigree cat photos as she shares her experience with these amazing cats with the world.
Goofy is my next project to socialize. He is coming out now when I go into the room and he is staying out unless I make eye contact accidentally and then it’s spit-hiss-hide.
I have a cat Jordan- she has been with her new adopted mom for 55 days now. Jordan came to us as a young kitten who was destined to be snake bait until I got there in the nick of time. She has siamese in her- but no color points. She was adopted out to a family not soon after arriving here, but they didn’t keep her very long as she doesn’t like other cats. I put her in foster care, she hid for about 9 days then came out and joined that family. I then adopted her out by the time she was 2 years old, to a really nice elderly woman in Portland.
Jordan has not come out of hiding since she was placed in the home. It is confusing because when I took her there, I had to bathe her before I could leave her. She’d urinated all over herself in the carrier. She was good with the bath, and although she was hiding a bit afterward, she did come out a few times to be admired, then she ducked back into hiding.
As I said, this has been a 55 day adoption and several times, I have been notified to come and pick this cat up, but at the last minute, a change of heart, another try with different measures being taken: feliway, soothing music, etc…
Now apparently, the only way Jordan is staying out is if this wonderful woman (who again is elderly) lies on the floor. Once she is completely prone, Jordan comes out and stays out! Now I applaud this woman for wanting Jordan so badly that she is trying all these things but my instinct is to just go and get her because something isn’t right. I don’t know if there is a trigger nearby; a scent, a sound, or something that drives this cat into hiding? I know I can’t expect this elderly woman to have a life that only takes place while she is lying on the floor. I can’t imagine my mother even doing something like that, so I know this woman loves this cat.
If anyone has any ideas- please post them here. I know the gentleman who first contacted me about a cat for this woman frequents my blog so he will see the ideas and perhaps one will click?
I’ve only had in the past one cat who hid from his adopted family for three months. Then one night, Rocky came out and stayed out and is living the high life on 10 acres in Scio. But with Jordan to have hid this long is quite puzzling. She only comes out to eat at night and is using the litter pan, drinking water etc.. This poor lady who has all this love to give Jordan is being robbed of a beautiful companion who instead of seeking out laps finds instead, dark holes and closets to hide in.
Here is jordan at the last foster home:
