The Trust Factor

Watching Hollister interact with the two of us, I am saddened to think that because of her early introduction to a human who did not understand the ways of a cat, she may not be able to move on and become someone’s beloved kitty for the rest of her life. When she sleeps with me, she will start by first sniffing my hair (as if she likes the smell of the shampoo). Her purr will then intensify and her sniffing becomes almost frantic- then she attacks my scalp. She digs in with teeth and claw and when she is removed, she comes right back. I hide my head under a pillow and she burrows her head deep underneath still seeking my hair and my head.

Last night I slept with a knitted cap on my head, hoping that might help and it didn’t. The only thing that prevents her from attacking at night is preventing her from sleeping in our room. Then she sits at the door and wails all night keeping me up. Mike’s oblivious to the noise as he takes his hearing aids out before he sleeps- but she is loud. I finally resorted to an old trick I discovered that stops cats from wanting to get into the bedroom at night. I parked the vacuum just inside the bedroom door. It was plugged in but not on. When she started screaming that she wanted inside, I turned the machine on just for a second and she scrambled away. Eventually, I was able to just park the vacuum outside the door not running and all was peaceful and quiet for the night. As time goes on and she feels she can trust humans again, the vacuum can be put back in the closet. But for right now- it stands vigil in the evening hours. It’s a good trick to stick in your back pocket if you have a cat that keeps you awake at night. Much better than spraying a cat with water- or screaming at the cat, stomping your feet or other methods some use to stop unwanted behavior in the nighttime.

3 thoughts on “The Trust Factor

  1. That is a good trick, with the vacuum cleaner. Could there be something in your shampoo that is attracting her? The poor girl. It can’t be easy being a cat with a history; everything is probably distorted for her.

    How is the knee?

  2. Got a football helmet to wear to bed? She must be over-stimulated, and attacks your head, but how to counteract it…hmmm…
    When it’s really cold here, I will wrap a scarf around my head and neck, and pull the covers over my head, leaving just a small breathing hole. Hey, laugh all you want, but it works! Wonder if something else on your head will deter her. Guess you’ll keep trying!

  3. All that is needed now is to just put the vacuum outside the door. The door can be kept open and she still won’t venture inside. It’s a very effective method to stop this type of behavior.

    My knee is getting better. I have most of the problem with it at night. Getting in and out of the bed is my biggest challenge. I sleep with a pillow wedged between my legs which helps a bit. It’s not 100% and may never be again, but it is vastly improved from what it was there in the beginning. I feel bad for Kota because walks are out of the question. Two women I met at the dog park a few months ago have been coming up three times a week and taking him over to their home where he runs with their two dogs and then they bring him back. He generally sleeps zonked out completely on those days!

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